I don't look for partner but as far as my concern for myself I want to achieve the "perfect" body which means the best body that I can develop.
I agree with you that beauty is mainly an attractive face feature but you cannot sculpt and outwork ya bad face, you can sculpt and outwork a bad body.
I care more about his face than his body yes, but I don't care for his body as long as he loves me (I'm not perfect as well and most of the guys I've dated had belly fat). He shouldn't be obese though because that significes for me as an unhealthy, lazy person.
I prefer that they are comfortable in their own skin. It really matters less if they are fine with how they look because then their confidence shines and makes them attractive. On a personal level, I think someone's face plays a big part and as long as they're not on deaths-door skinny or obese then what's the difference. I do like a bit of height and chunk (not necessarily muscle) but that's my personal preference.
I'm the opposite. I can look past an ugly face if their body is the type I'm usually attracted to. I really don't focus on facial features all that much -- I mean, if he's got a pretty face then great, but an ugly body would probably be a dealbreaker whereas an ugly face is not.
It doesn't have to be ideal, neither body nor face, but I wouldn't say I don't care at all if they're too thin or too chubby. It does matter to me and I link it to being healthy and what kind of genes would my children receive in case we stay together.
I would say that I care much more about my own body; if I don't look good in my clothes/stay in shape, I feel awful.
As for the guy, in terms of appearance, the face would mean more to me, he doesn't have to have a six-pack, I don't expect one. As long as he takes general care of himself, I'm fine.
I actually like the petite look much better on females. Its flattering and compliments almost anything a female chooses to wear. I feel like having a big butt and big boobs are a distraction to men. But hey thats just me. I have a nice shape, and do not feel that my shape is distracting. However, just because a female is on the heavier side I feel that she shouldn't feel insecure about her body nor looks.
Body matters to me, face matters too. I don't want to be with anorexic or obese person. I don't wanna be shallow but a person should try to be healthy as much as they can.
I saw one very handsome guy in local shop and despite him being chubby, I'd date him immediatly. I think that face matters a bit more than body.
I prefer both. Ugly face but body of goddess = I'd get tired of doggy style or the lights always off every time rather quickly (possibly after just 1 fuck). Face of a goddess but body of either a whale or a death camp escapee = can't do shit with that since sexual position or lights off won't help much.
it doesn't have to be perfect that would be setting your expectations to high. I rather the girl have a pretty face because that's what your going to be looking at more often but she can't be fat I can't fuck with fat chicks. if she also has a nice body that's a defiantly a plus I girl with a cute face and a banging body would be great.
a perfect body is more of a myth ! if you are things people ask why are you thin, if you are fat, people say you need to lose some that. so that means a perfect body is only having abs is perfect? and that is something required by professionals are those who are fond ! so I conclude not a perfect body but good fitness does matter.
I like guys that have a good physique. He doesn't have to have a six pack to have a good physique. He has to be healthy. I don't care much about the face though it does matter to a small extent. Also, personality matters THE MOST. I won't date a guy who's rude, stubborn, forceful or impractical most of the time even if he has supermodel looks. Also, to me, a too muscular body is a no-no. That's just me though.
Yeah it matters to an extent. I won't date a guy who is a bean pole. I'm just not attracted to it at all. Also, if he's built up top but has chicken legs or just has legs that splay out at exteme angles -pretty unattractive. I've actually known a guy who had stretch marks on his arms. It's not a deal breaker cuz I still wanted to get with him lol
I always find it super unattractive if the guy has a smaller torso than me or if his arms are shorter than mine ( I'm 5'7)
My honest Opinion to a "Does a perfect body really matter to you?" is that if you yourself, don't consider yourself having a "perfect body" why only go for people with one. but that's just me. because 60+% look for someone who they like personality wise and good looking/having thier "perfect body shaped" partner. <(Opinion)
The perfect body doesn't matter to me because women's "perfect" is different than men's "perfect" and vice versa.
I like women to have a little junk in the trunk and b/c cup size. But to answer your question, yes it does to an extent. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be out of shape
The face is the most important to me as well but I still dont like an overweight girl or a girl that has no roundness in her butt (a flat butt is a deal breaker for me lol). I take good care of myself and stay in good shape so I dont think asking for a girl that isn't overweight and has a curve in her butt is that big of a deal
Fair enough pretty face is nice and a hot. Body is good to its a matter of opinion tbh but I prefer a kind face to a hot body but then again not trying to sound like a dick I like a active girl someone who will go to the gym and hikes with me and generally speaking they have good body's
Nobody is perfect. Yes, you may have models who look to be perfect, but often times they're not. They have to do extreme training and are taking in very few calories. And plus, a lot of "perfect" people don't have very good personalities.
I never pay so much attention to one's physique when dating. More on the face but even then Im more into his personality it seems because there's always someone that comes up and say "why him? You deserve someone hotter" and I'd just laugh it off 😂
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I don't look for partner but as far as my concern for myself I want to achieve the "perfect" body which means the best body that I can develop.
I agree with you that beauty is mainly an attractive face feature but you cannot sculpt and outwork ya bad face, you can sculpt and outwork a bad body.
As do I! Yes that is true. I agree 100%
I care more about his face than his body yes, but I don't care for his body as long as he loves me (I'm not perfect as well and most of the guys I've dated had belly fat). He shouldn't be obese though because that significes for me as an unhealthy, lazy person.
I prefer that they are comfortable in their own skin. It really matters less if they are fine with how they look because then their confidence shines and makes them attractive. On a personal level, I think someone's face plays a big part and as long as they're not on deaths-door skinny or obese then what's the difference. I do like a bit of height and chunk (not necessarily muscle) but that's my personal preference.
I'm the opposite. I can look past an ugly face if their body is the type I'm usually attracted to. I really don't focus on facial features all that much -- I mean, if he's got a pretty face then great, but an ugly body would probably be a dealbreaker whereas an ugly face is not.
It doesn't have to be ideal, neither body nor face, but I wouldn't say I don't care at all if they're too thin or too chubby. It does matter to me and I link it to being healthy and what kind of genes would my children receive in case we stay together.
I would say that I care much more about my own body; if I don't look good in my clothes/stay in shape, I feel awful.
As for the guy, in terms of appearance, the face would mean more to me, he doesn't have to have a six-pack, I don't expect one. As long as he takes general care of himself, I'm fine.
I actually like the petite look much better on females. Its flattering and compliments almost anything a female chooses to wear. I feel like having a big butt and big boobs are a distraction to men. But hey thats just me. I have a nice shape, and do not feel that my shape is distracting. However, just because a female is on the heavier side I feel that she shouldn't feel insecure about her body nor looks.
Body matters to me, face matters too. I don't want to be with anorexic or obese person. I don't wanna be shallow but a person should try to be healthy as much as they can.
I saw one very handsome guy in local shop and despite him being chubby, I'd date him immediatly. I think that face matters a bit more than body.
I prefer both. Ugly face but body of goddess = I'd get tired of doggy style or the lights always off every time rather quickly (possibly after just 1 fuck). Face of a goddess but body of either a whale or a death camp escapee = can't do shit with that since sexual position or lights off won't help much.
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it doesn't have to be perfect that would be setting your expectations to high. I rather the girl have a pretty face because that's what your going to be looking at more often but she can't be fat I can't fuck with fat chicks. if she also has a nice body that's a defiantly a plus I girl with a cute face and a banging body would be great.
a perfect body is more of a myth ! if you are things people ask why are you thin, if you are fat, people say you need to lose some that. so that means a perfect body is only having abs is perfect? and that is something required by professionals are those who are fond ! so I conclude not a perfect body but good fitness does matter.
I like guys that have a good physique. He doesn't have to have a six pack to have a good physique. He has to be healthy. I don't care much about the face though it does matter to a small extent. Also, personality matters THE MOST. I won't date a guy who's rude, stubborn, forceful or impractical most of the time even if he has supermodel looks. Also, to me, a too muscular body is a no-no. That's just me though.
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Yeah it matters to an extent. I won't date a guy who is a bean pole. I'm just not attracted to it at all.
Also, if he's built up top but has chicken legs or just has legs that splay out at exteme angles -pretty unattractive.
I've actually known a guy who had stretch marks on his arms. It's not a deal breaker cuz I still wanted to get with him lol
I always find it super unattractive if the guy has a smaller torso than me or if his arms are shorter than mine ( I'm 5'7)
For the face to be attractive, the guy's probably gonna need to be trimmer anyway, though. So you're killing two birds with one stone.
In my case a body I'm attracted to can make up for a sub-par face and vice versa.
My honest Opinion to a "Does a perfect body really matter to you?" is that if you yourself, don't consider yourself having a "perfect body" why only go for people with one. but that's just me. because 60+% look for someone who they like personality wise and good looking/having thier "perfect body shaped" partner. <(Opinion)
The perfect body doesn't matter to me because women's "perfect" is different than men's "perfect" and vice versa.
I like women to have a little junk in the trunk and b/c cup size. But to answer your question, yes it does to an extent. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be out of shape
The face is the most important to me as well but I still dont like an overweight girl or a girl that has no roundness in her butt (a flat butt is a deal breaker for me lol). I take good care of myself and stay in good shape so I dont think asking for a girl that isn't overweight and has a curve in her butt is that big of a deal
Fair enough pretty face is nice and a hot. Body is good to its a matter of opinion tbh but I prefer a kind face to a hot body but then again not trying to sound like a dick I like a active girl someone who will go to the gym and hikes with me and generally speaking they have good body's
Nobody is perfect. Yes, you may have models who look to be perfect, but often times they're not. They have to do extreme training and are taking in very few calories. And plus, a lot of "perfect" people don't have very good personalities.
If that was true, how are u not in ma arms yet? :<
@Keyspirit Because I don't know you. ;)
Well nows the time we start writing our LUV story 💝
I never pay so much attention to one's physique when dating. More on the face but even then Im more into his personality it seems because there's always someone that comes up and say "why him? You deserve someone hotter" and I'd just laugh it off 😂