So, although it sounds pretty great, he started asking me out the first day we started talking (on 13th, asking for a vday date). I was quite reluctant to meet him for fear that despite my pleasant impression, he's shady hahah. For the next few days he continued asking casually to have coffee during weekends, wasn't pushy but I didn't agree.
On Fri I went drinking with a girlfriend who teased that I smiled a little too much while texting him. I had a bit too much, and started spelling weird, he says he may start to get worried which is not fun and asks me text him when I'm home. Im a sleepy drunk, so my girlfriend took my phone and started texting this guy telling him to get me home if he's really worried. And on the 5th day of chatting, he climbed out of bed and changed to get me home.
The next day he says he doesn't like worrying about drunk people and was less chatty. I had wanted to ask him out for coffee to thank him but thought maybe I'll ask nxt wk as he didn't sound too happy. But the day after, he told me he'd be flying off that night on a month-long trip, and I told him my original plans to ask him out. He replied sure, maybe when I'm back. And said he won't be contactable but will talk when he's back. He has also told me that I don't have to overthink with him as he is a blunt person.
But I can't help thinking, was he busy (that weekend before flying) or was he not interested anymore? I haven't fallen for him but I think he's a really great guy and I want to know him better. Opinions?