I've been seeing this guy for quite while now and I really like him. Like lots. He is the sweetest guy and I don't often feel this connection... there is just one thing.
He loves making sure that I'm always dressed warmly. I think he feels like he is protecting me, and making sure I'm comfortable before we go out.
So I wear leggings under my jeans (he loves that), I have a big warm parka I zip up all the way, I wear turtleneck sweaters, gloves, hats, scarves, boots. Now I don't really *have* to do any of that, I'm fine just dressing normal, but is it weird that I like to do this to please him?
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, it is incredibly unhealthy to change who you are for someone else. BUT, what you are describing to me isn't changing who you are to please someone, it's making someone more comfortable by doing things (wearing warm clothes) that don't ultimately change who you are as a person. This is making concessions, compromising to make someone comfortable. I see no issue with this at all.0
Most Helpful Girl
yes definitely. kinda seems like he is trying to keep you hidden, covering you up. very peculiar.0