So, I have been talking to this boy for a couple of months now and we've arranged to meet up tomorrow and you have no idea how nervous I am! My mum wants to meet him with me to check if he says who he is but I don't know if that's making me more nervous or less nervous. I just don't know how it's gonna go down. I want to get there before him so I don't have to approach him because I haven't got a clue how to do that! Has anyone been in the same boat as I am and have you got any advice?
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First dates/ meetings are very nerve wracking, but he'll more than likely be feeling very nervous too. Try not to overthink things about how it will turn out , or what you should say or shouldn't say to him when you meet. Try just to be natural with him, be yourself.
. Once you are there face to face with him you'll probably find your nerves will subside a little. It's more nerve wracking leading up to a meeting than it is when you are actually there
Considering your age range you shouldn't go alone. Your safety should be paramount. Your mum loves you , so she's only looking after your well- being. She's not trying to prevent you from meeting him, or spoil your fun.. she only wants to ensure you'll be safe. Trust your mum's judgement.
Good luck ❤1