I'm going to try a going on a few dates with my female friend who recently told me that she has had a crush on me for a few years. She just told me after I broke up with my ex girlfriend. We talked and She said that if I feel that we won't work out that we can go back to being best friend. My problem is that I'm not romantically attracted to her and I don't see her in a sexual way. She has basically been in my sister zone for 4 years and I'm not sure if I can change the way I think about her. How can I try to build my attraction for her?
Also please don't suggest I have sex with her. Were both waiting until were married for moral and religious reasons.
Most Helpful Girl
If you are not romantically attracted to her and you don't see her in a sexual way, give up. You don't really want her and it's better to be single, rather than being with someone you don't consider attractive. It's not fair for both of you.1
Most Helpful Guy
I did this with a friend of mine about 3 years ago. Basically, we hing out, we went on dates, did couple things, no sex for the same reasons. We dated for about 5 or 6 months, I realized that she's at the wants to marry me stage and I was getting no where, great friend but nothing more. We broke it up and are still good friends, better friends even, for it. I figured, I liked her enough to be at least willing to try it.1