I'm 26 living with my boyfriend of 2 years. Things are not going well, we fight, he is emotionally abusive, and physically breaks & throws things. Although I am unhappy, I can't break up with him, because the moment he is gone for a few days I become sad and alone. I hate eating alone, waking up alone, being in my own home alone. I don't know what to do?
Most Helpful Guy
Get some friends. The best way to do that is to break up and try to go out. Shit is reeeeeeally tough when you're in that mindstate because new people won't want to be around you as much. But you really just gotta play the numbers game and talk to EVERYONE. Not obviously to get a rebound, but just to settle those horrible feelings.
Hope you get out and it works out for you, sorry to hear you're going through this *hugs* :)1
Most Helpful Girl
You have to ask yourself why you become sad and alone, it probably has a lot to do with how you feel in your relationship, it just sounds like you can't be alone and thats shitty, we all are alone at a time in our lives, before you even had a boyfriend you were single.. so you really have to be comfortable with being yourself and then being alone won't be so bad because then you'll realize that its important to be alone too, you learn about yourself a lot better. because in relationships.. you can lose a sense of yourself.0