A guy I've been talking to for a month we started talking again after some time of not talking and he wanted to meet on the day we started talking again and I told him I couldn't and he kept persisting, he said he is going to be busy for the next couple of weeks and probably won't have time to meet up. He says 2 weeks is too long to wait. He also said sponatenious (I can't spell lol) dates are fun and it can be but when you know the person. Not first dates in my opinion
Do you think this is being too forward?
What Guys Said 1
Smells fishy. Just be careful.0
What Girls Said 1
Because of how pushy he seems, I'd say yes- it is too forward in my opinion.
If you've only talked with him for a month, and don't know him well, or know him prior, I wouldn't jump to going out with him at his convenience when he's free. If you have other things going on, or are busy yourself, don't let him pressure you to going on a date so soon.
You can do a test, and see after those two weeks, if he wants to plan a day together. This way you'll get a sign he is interested in you enough to wait a while for an actual date, and it'll give you more time to talk with him and try to get a better sense of who he is.
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