As usual this starts with "there's this girl". She asked me what I would do if I got to choose between her and a girl I used to like and I said I could say the same with someone she used to like. Basically it seems like at the moment we aren't too close but still sort of like each other and are worried about that sort of thing. The things is the people we accused the other of preferring are unavailable to both of us anyway so... What do we do? It kind of bothers me that she'd prefer him but of course she says she doesn't and I don't know if us being together is a good idea if we are second choices. It might be fun and happy but I'd always have it in the back of my head. Would you guys be bothered or do you think after a while we'd prefer each other much more than anyone else? Has this ever happened to you before?
What to do if you're a girls second choice and would you mind?
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I wouldn't want to be anyone's 2nd choice. If the person was even torn between me and another person, I wouldn't want them to choose me. I want to be the only option.0
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