So do u girls really hate that one female friend of your boyfriend that you're insecure of? Provided you know they flirt and stuff. Like do u blame your boyfriend or hate that girl too?
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, I would say not HATE but definitely dislike and the reasons are simple yet unjustified.
Lack of self confidence and territorialness. As in, Monica dislikes Kate because Kate is friends with Monica's boyfriend and Monica perceives, even imagines, that Kate could go after her boyfriend. This is Monica having territorial instincts. But, Monica's own insecurities leads to the territorialness.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say yes for this but for me, I dont hate her. I am more to have that pity on her although I won't say it out loud either to her or him. I think he might got irritated if a girl is being too much flirty when he has nothing to do with her even if she is his friend. Pity is pity, but Im not going to let my guard down on her and just chill.
I deal with my insecurity since if the girl knows about it, Im sure she will try to dig it even more. What I done is just simple- dont buy any shits even if it is your boyfriend's female friend, even if you have worst insecurity, even if you can't trust him if they both were alone. This is easy saying than done honestly.1