just wanted to talk to him and get to know him until we met up and he said he wouldn't be able to talk today and I thought that was odd and thats when he called me high maintence and went into more detail on how he doesn't have time to talk all the time etc.
Most Helpful Guy
To be honest... Not every guy would interested in high maintenance gal since, she would be obsessed with her look... Spend money and time trying to get a good look or designer clothes... Until she's about 60's she would cut it down like stopped rolled her hair and cut down on beauty just to apply lipstick and powder. I have seen mid aged ladies changed.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've seen too many of those. They are the " string you along" type guys. They think your" needy" when you simply would just like to have a human interaction and talk on the phone or have a date night. These are the non commitment types. They try to pry on your insecurities because it hooks us without them putting effort in. Best thing you can do is nothing. Don't react to anything he does. Be what you think you would want your sister to do if she was dating a guy like that. And yes, having high standards is the best thing you can do for yourself. I learned the hard way. Look you YouTube M. A 2.0 he has great advice.1