Before anyone starts, I don't care about this 'girl codex' junk.
Okay, so I'm crushing hard on a friend's ex. She's with another guy now & seems pretty happy. She doesn't know I like her ex, so I need a really sneaky way of getting it out of her without her noticing.
I talked about her ex to her & she said she wasn't bothered that we were friendly with each other, but she seems kinda tense everytime she sees us standing or chatting somewhere, so I think she WOULD have an issue with me asking her openly.
Any suggestions how I should do this?
We're grown people, man, I can date whoever I want, whether she likes it or not.
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Well if she cares its gonna suck for her. Even if you dont care, you can still try your best to do it in a way she won't get hurt by it.
And to answer your question, yeah I guess you can ask her why it didn't work out, what made her fall for him, then what made him fall for her, what he liked the most about her, what he used to say about her (you can ask his friends, they may know), why it didn't work out etc...
Good luck, hope it works out for you and your friend (eg she's cool with it)1