I am a kind, smart, caring, genuine, empathetic, smart, loyal, and sometimes funny person so I don't get why this is? I can be shy but I am sick of things not working out with the guys I have liked. I have been single for almost two years now and am ready to give up because I feel like a hopeless romantic. People keep giving me false hope and it just ends up biting my ass in the end.
Most Helpful Guy
Because the guys you like have other options. They are desired by other women, and some of those other women are going to be better than you. If you want to be number one with certainty, date a guy who gets zero female attention (ugly, introverted, socially anxious, poor guys).
It's fairly common for girls to go after the top guys, then act all confused and hurt when they are not chosen over other girls.
In short, be patient and wait if you want the guys you like, OR lower your standards and be with the guys you don't just to have someone love and adore you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you are picking the wrong guys? I don't know the guys you want/pursue, but I know a lot of my friends had this problem where they subconsciously picked guys that they knew deep inside weren't good for them. It's also possible that the guys you want to pursue are out of your league? Or are you maybe getting friend zoned, the girl they like and like to hang out with but they aren't looking to date? Perhaps you are too accommodating, there are some guys who like the chase. There are many guys who say they don't play games, but there is a certain amount of game that needs to be played, a certain amount of chasing and making them work for it. Maybe they weren't interested and were just being nice and didn't mean to give false hope. Really, the reasons could be anything, more details would be nice...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE