It isn't as bad as it sounds. I usually don't go for a big age gap. It's just, all the older girls I know or girls my age are just not my type. They wanna date the guy who offers them the most stability and benefits. I don't like people dating me like I'm a walking wallet. Younger girls. Teenage girls are usually more pure about their emotions. They make you feel loved and cared for. Supposedly they say teen girls don't know about love but tbh women mature faster than men and the few I've dated before have shown me they know how to love better than older women. I try for it to never get sexual if they're underage. I guess I'm a protector kind of guy. I wanna find a nice teen girl and just protect her innocence and purity from getting spoiled from this nasty fucked up world. I guess that's also why I like the whole "daddy" thing. But that's a whole different deal for a whole different topic 😂 my question is. Is it really that wrong? Am I doing anyone any harm by it? Even if everything is consensual? How do teen girls feel about this. About an older guy liking them or w. e. what or how could I do better to make them feel safe. Because I never ever want them to feel like I wanna take advantage of them. Most of my friends are younger than me too anyways. I guess I'm just a kid at heart lol. Should I just grow up? Lol. Please help
Girls, For girls only - is it really bad that I like teen girls and I'm on my early 20s?
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I don't think you're a bad person, but what you are doing is wrong. Many teenage girls see a relationship, especially with an older guy, as a sign of their worth (I'm speaking GENERALLY here). To date them when you are that much older is taking advantage of them, whether you mean to or not. You might be attracted to younger people because you are immature but that doesn't mean you'll always be this way. For now, stop dating and focus on ways you can improve yourself. Talk to a therapist if you feel like your attraction is out of control. Good luck!1
Firstly I'm 17 and I have a lot of friends that see men as a walking atm ( I'm not one of them for many reasons) and it depends on how old are you talking?
I've heard girls say that they don't want younger guys because they have nothing to offer but sex and grown men are mature and have money.0
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It's very weird and creepy if I'm being honest.0
I feel like its alright, but obviously there's limits. But I understand what you're trying to say as in some older women using you for their financial needs. As long as you're truly caring and supportive and not full of sexual desires then what's the issue?0
Yes it is bad. They are KIDS you are an adult. You shouldn't be going for young girls that's why there are statutory rape and carnal knowledge laws in place. Grow up and go for WOMEN your own age.0
I wonder why you asked if you don't wanna hear people's opinions... anon gave you as it is and she's right tbh1
I dont think It's creepy at all... I mean I find guys who are over 18 attractive... I guess It's normal but you should date a girl who is 20-22 years old instead, they can act like teenagers.0
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