He invited me out on a date. Then later he asks me where I am at. I tell him that I'm in my dorm which is 20 minutes away from where he's at. Then he says to me "I'm sick in bed. Was hoping you were in town. Save me the drive. Can you take a bus or something hun?"
Do I have the right to be disappointed?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like bullshit to me.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like he's kind of a jerk, and just lazy.
If he was genuinely interested in dating you, he'd make a little more effort. Not saying he should go out of his way for you all the time, but from what you described, he's not even making a minimum effort to show you he's interested in dating you.
I wouldn't say to dump him over just this situation, because I don't know how he normally acts. Go by what you've seen so far. Is he usually like this? Does he make a lot of excuses, always makes you do things/put in the effort, etc.