Guy 1: Became my best friend for about half a year. Got extremely close with me but claimed to be gay with rare exceptions and I truly believed that I was one of them. He flirted with me all
the time (and knew it he's the smartest person I've ever met) but could never come to terms with it. That strained the relationship a bit but I think that I truly fell in love with him. I left (for important reasons) and haven't really talked to him in about 6 months but he still crosses my mind.
Guy 2: Totally shows obvious signs of interest and is smoking hot. (That's just a plus.) Super nice, sweet and funny and has a great sense of humor and personality. Definitely a tough guy (but secretly really sensitive!!) I'm the least close with this person (since he's just so shy and never approaches and also partially because he's always so busy). I do like him though and it appears that he likes me too. I could and would, give him a shot.
Guy 3: Currently one of my best friend and I'm one of his best friends. Known him for about half a year now and we clicked right away when we met. We found out that our pasts are actually intertwined. We were on the same soccer team when we were both 5. Super cute and sweet guy. Has a great sense of humor and is extremely fun to hang out with. I'm definitely the MOST comfortable with him (guy #1 behind 2nd in comfort levels). And we hang out pretty often. He's kinda weird though. Sometimes I feel like he's interested in me, and other times I feel like he only sees me as a friend. He gives off mixed signals and it's super confusing. I'm starting to think that we might just be better off as friends? I'm not sure.
- Guy #1Vote A
- Guy #2Vote B
- Guy #3Vote C
- Comment/See Results/OtherVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Be friends with guy one don't throw that away, guy 2 sounds like an adorable softie consider going after him with a strong move but once you got him relax. Maybe consider his looks a factor like being so hot are women to nervous to approach him? Guy 3, For me dating a friend is a way of dating I suggest that person knows you better than a random stranger, though beware if it doesn't work out can you two go back to being friends? Oh that sounds like a soul mate with destiny. Definitely ask guy 3 how he feels about you, you need to know that for certain which may prevent you from seeking him out instead of the other 2 immediately. Either go out for coffee muster up your courage and ask him or ask via text message. Good luck.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's really not as hard as you're making it. Which one always comes to your mind first? That's the one. But if you have doubts about any of them, are they really doubts, or just excuses because you like one the others better?
Forget "traditional", or "normal". Forget what others will think, and for the love of all that makes you happy, forget what you parent's will think! Friends and family always want what's best for us, and will notice things that we don't want to see, but parent's have a tendency to shun whatever is not traditional, whatever is new or different.
You're still so young, you have plenty of time to make mistakes, and have fun before you settle down, so this time, just choose the one you want most, regardless of what you think might be "wrong" with him. Who knows, maybe you're wrong about him ;-)
by the way, bad boys are ALWAYS "secretly" sensitive. Why do you think they act so tough to begin with? To protect themselves.1