A girl I'm dating is everything I want in a woman.
The only thing is, on Facebook, Snapchat and Instagram, she is quite the poster. Mostly of herself and there has been quite a bit of skin showing in a number of photos.. Like she wants guys to look.
I'm not looking for a one night stand, I'm looking for a respectable relationship. As is she, but I'm worried if we can't agree on a middle ground here, her and I can't work out..
While she posts a lot on social media, uses it as a necessity and has 1800 facebook friends...
I have under 400, never take myself seriously on any platform and don't even have instagram.
^^We could not be any more opposite in that regard.
So, as per the poll:
Is it a turn off for your partner to post a lot of pictures to gain attention? Or not?
And how do I tell her to tone the "craving attention" side of it down a bit?
I feel like I'm almost on the edge of being "controlling", which is not what I want to be. I want someone with self-respect on social media...
Tl;dr - Girl I'm dating posts lots of photos, I'm scared she values social media too much, when I am the complete opposite. Will it work out? How can I fix things?
- Yep, I can't stand attention cravers.94%(15)96%(23)Vote100%(8)
- No, you're overthinking it/being controlling6%(1)4%(1)Vote0%(0)