Most Helpful Guy
Please don't take this the wrong way but from a relationship coaches perspective, you already answered the question when you said "but the guys I choose".
I'd be curious if you knew what your needs (non-negotiables) were and how you end up trying to find guys that meet them.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm. That's not right.
I would start with "you" do you have confidence? Do you love who you are? In my opinion, the man that only wants sex is looking at you for an easy "target" The lack of self-confidence is very noticeable with how you present yourself. Learn to love everything about who you are, and a door should open. ♡0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE