I know, I know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I am certainly not a ten. My face is asymmetrical, I'm awkwardly tall and skinny, and I don't have many 'curves'. I don't consider myself ugly, but I certainly wouldn't say I'm pretty either. I'm a freshman at university and I've never even been flirted with. At my high school prom, I was one of two girls who didn't have a date. Even now I find myself being the odd one out when people are flirting with my friends and not even looking my way. I do put effort into my appearance, but even then I'm not turning any heads. I find myself getting agitated and upset when people talk about their significant others/getting flirted with, since I yearn for knowing what that's like but I fear I never will.
I guess what I'm wondering is this: do I as a very average, unassuming, shy girl have any chance of finding a boy/girlfriend?
Most Helpful Guy
You have more of a chance then most guys1
Most Helpful Girl
Of course you do; I'm kind of the same way. Looks are not forever because everyone will age one day and potentially become less attractive. I know a couple of friends who are pretty average looking but got friendly, lovable and fun personalities, these inner qualities would help in finding a boyfriend. Just try and keep going at it, because when you do not even believe in yourself, how do you expect other people to do the same?
^lol, I know this quote is hella cheesy n over-used. But, it still gets the point across.0