So in my 20 years of life I have only ever been in one relationship. The relationship didn't last and ever since I've been back to my usual problem, girls just don't pay attention to me. I mean literally no attention. Not as a friend, not even just talking to me if they happen to sit by me in class. I don't understand it. I think I'm fairly attractive and I'm nice to everyone but girls just don't seem to care. I am shy, so that could be part of it but still I would think odds are more than 1 girl in 20 would take an interest in me, no? Do any other guys have this problem? Any tips on how to get them interested? Girls what makes you take interest in a guy?
Most Helpful Girl
you should consider a image consultant. ... I'd love to help if you were here in CO... have to see you as your self first to see what's happening... you could just be clueless or you could be scaring them away.. plus... for me I have never paid attention to my class mates.. always older guys, there's too many factors to consider that I don't know0
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Most Helpful Guy
I'm in the exact same situation as you, except a little older. At this point, I believe I have been sentenced to confirmed bachelorhood. So I might not be able to give you advice to get women interested besides the general stuff that science has proved work (project dominance, be sure of yourself, try not to be too self aware or intelligent). In short, you'll have to change into someone you're not currently. Which isn't so bad, everyone changes eventually, but I'm afraid that, at least here in the United States, the person you have to change into to attract the majority of other people is not such a globally minded person.
Personally though, I'm really happy with who I am as a person and I'm confident in my morals. If you are too, then I suggest you try meditating, gaining confidence in useful skills (languages, music, cooking, fitness, whatever), and this is the important part: ignore women. People are attracted to whom they will be attracted to, they don't have any control over that, and apparently you and I missed the boat on that one. It's best to focus on what you can change.0