So today I met up with this guy I have had a crush on for the longest time. (I'd given him a card saying I liked him and was interested in getting to know him and he said he would like to get to know me too)
It was going well, he bought me a coffee and we talked a lot and we got on pretty well. We have a lot in common and he's basically everything I could want in a guy. He seems a genuinely nice person. He was open with me by saying that he's not sure if he's ready for anything more as he recently had a bad break up, which i completely understand and respect. I'm glad he was honest. Thing is I am naturally devastated.
I text him and thanked him for today and said that I understand he's not ready for a relationship yet but maybe we can still be friends, to which he said that he enjoyed today and we can definitely be friends. Do you think there will be a chance he will want to go out with me one day? People I've spoken to said he's probably feeling conflicted and not wanting to rush, but he could still be interested because otherwise he wouldn't have wanted to meet up?
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Right now things seem uncertain, as he just had a break up. but if I can say I think you should wait a little, because his break up still effected him, emotions are still raw. Tread lightly and try not to rush things, just get to know each other for now.
I mean yeah there's a chance he's interested because he went out with you for coffee.0
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