We have talked everyday since October. he would follow me, help me, go out of his way all the time. until now he still shows interest. he gives me rides home sometimes since we work in the same place. we text n send pics on snap n replay them n use flirty emojis, but he only flirts in text. only twice in person he has winked. he asked me to go out with him during that time and we hung out all day. after that day he still stared at me at work, talked to me all the time, etc. in car rides his voice would get soft n he would be so nice. We talk about anything, family, interests. we watched a movie at my house once that he chose about a guy that wants to date a girl he's friends with that he has a crush on, he asks if he can kiss me then we makeout, i don't let him go further. he shows me things he bought or pics of his room, pics of him laying in bed, sleeping. a month went by, still no date so I invited him to a place that he mentioned to me to eat, he got nervous wen he saw me since I was dressed nicer than I usually am for work. he got jealous wen I mentioned I went out to eat with guy coworkers. Wenhe drops me off he hugs me. but sometimes he tries to act cool how he's not staring or wanting me to talk to him first. i invite him to my house again and we talk n laugh n he's like let's see a movie n then we makeout n grind/dryhump, he feels flustered. he still talks to me, send me flirty pics, we both have dreamt about each other once n flirt about it. his dream was about us kissing. wen I ignore him or limit my attention to him he texts me and talks to me more. he's polite n never pressures me. Today he sent a pic wen he woke up n flirted, said he was thinking of me when he was in the shower and about when we were in my house. then I said I was thinking about him too last night. i always mention for us to go out and he just says ik n never invites me. I'm confused
How can I be his boyfriend and date him? What should I do?
What Guys Said 1
From what I can read he is a shy guy. Not all men are created equally. He doesn't have much issue one on one but in a more social setting he does?
I'd suggest a date where there is not much social pressure.
What Girls Said 1
I think he is very physically attracted to you. However, I am not certain if he wants a serious relationship.0
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