I don't really get it to be honest.. my best friend who is super gorgeous also has never been in a relationship and yet I have a lot of very average friends ( not to be rude) who have been in a ton of relationships so what are we doing wrong here? I am not saying relationships should be based on looks but honestly, I am studious, I workout and I try to be kind to everyone around me without being a pushover.
The only guys who ever approach me are the macho douchey kinda guys who to be honest are never on the same intellectual level as I am. They tend to be super materialistic and I can't remember the last time I spoke to a guy who was both attractive and smart. Basically, what am I doing wrong? Anyone else in the same boat? I should mention that I have dated a ton of guys (who like I said have been kinda douchey)
Most Helpful Guy
I work with a young lady, about 23-24, maybe, just graduated, and I think she is VERY pretty, but I am pretty sure she is a virgin, and she said she doesn't have a boyfriend!!
I don't understand that? I would assume, just meeting her, the first time, that she would have at least 3-4 guys, and maybe even a girl, wanting her!! But no!!
She's not super-religious, but definitely 'Daddy's girl' kind, maybe a little TOO protected.
The strange thing, is that she openly 'flirts' with me!! I'm not at all a 'HOT' kind of guy, and nearly old enough to be her father!! Is it just the cologne, or some feeling she has, maybe seeing something of a 'father figure'?
I'm not MEAN, but I do tease her, and smile at her when she is wearing something nice. Maybe a compliment or two, and a 'look'.
I like her, as a person, a friend, maybe, but she is so young!! I don't really feel anything for her, like in a 'relationship' way, but I wonder what she is thinking and feeling?0
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Most Helpful Girl
You aren't doing anything wrong, I got into a serious relationship when i was 25 almost turning 26, and I'm not bad looking myself, and I do understand where you are coming from, but honestly, the best thing to do is just to enjoy life, don't plan it, don't expect nothing, because when you least expect it, it will happen, and you won't even remember feeling the way you feel now...
<3 just be patient with yourself, focus on priorities, enjoy your life to the fullest while you are still single <30