I'm nearly 15 and very mature for my age for the past 2-3 years I've really wanted to be in a real relationship with someone and feel what's it's like to have that connection with a special someone and I want to feel loved. I'm really ready for my first kiss but I'm not attracted to anyone my age it's between 2-5 years older then myself. I really like this guy who is 20 he hasn't had a relationship yet and I don't think he's had his first kiss I would like him to be my first real boyfriend and share our first kiss together. It's just really frustrating if really ready for a boyfriend it gets me down and I do get a bit noddy at times.
Most Helpful Guy
"Very mature" at age 14 does not mean that you are very mature. You may feel that you are ready for a relationship but that doesn't mean that you actually are ready. You are probably very eager to prove that you are becoming a woman but the truth is that you are still a young girl. In the process of trying to "prove" that you are a woman, you can cause yourself hurt far greater than you would anticipate and you will also deny yourself the opportunity to enjoy your childhood. If you slow down and stop trying to rush ahead, you will be grateful twenty years from now.
You also need to understand that there are laws which prohibit older people from having relationships with girls your age. The guy who you fancy could go to prison if he gets into a relationship with you. Is that what you want to do to him?5
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Most Helpful Girl
Sweety, When I was 15 years old I also considered myself being mature but trust me, looking back NOW at 28 I WAS NOT !!!
So, my advice to you is, to enjoy tour teenage life as much as you can, without settling down, because trust me, you will be SO FED UP, i had my first serious relationship at 25 and now we're still kicking it at 28, but GIIIIRL do i get fed up at times, I WOULD PAY to have a day alone but now i'm in a relationship and we live together and I absolutely love him, but again.. I WOULD PAY to have just one day off my myself.4