Most Helpful Guy
You seem over sensitive and have a general lack of self confidence and hang on what others think of you too critically. I totally understand how you feel and no body likes to be rejected and can have lingering terrible feelings. But, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get back on the horse and keep trying. You will get nowhere if you keep retreating and hiding in the turtle shell. During that time you could have easily found someone else, or even the guy of your dreams. If someone rejects you, it doesn't always automatically mean there is something wrong with you! Some people just have different criteria for what they find attractive or aren't ready to date or are just rude and idiots! Whatever it is, remember it is their loss. Hold your head up high knowing at least you tried and had the guts to do it!0
Most Helpful Girl
Girl I spent a few years when I was younger away from guys after the first time someone broke my heart. I got really depressed and it took a really long time. But the truth is that I didn't feel the need to because I needed to spend my energy towards healing. Then I start dating and I end up dating a girl very briefly. She fucked up big time, but I was fine with it because I had the strength to move on. I'm now dating this amazing guy and I'm really in love.
My point is: Heal first. Don't rush anything. When you feel ready start dating again because then you can make it even if you don't find the right person right away.2