Till I was 23. I was very fat, then I lost weight and became incredibly good looking and cute.
I always had a fantasy of being the 1st boyfriend of a woman, but Now im 26, so all the women I interact with always had some ex, and I get turned off by that and I get cold with that woman, and she is left heartbroken and jaded.
I know this is wrong, but all I want is some help, please help me?
- You have serious problem, go to a therapist.Vote A
- No, you dont have any problem, you just have standards in dating.Vote B
- Others ( I want to give my comment )Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Are you serious? You say you can't get a girl but YOU DO GET GIRLS but you break their hearts just because they are not virgins like you?
Honey, you need to stop thinking that way, open up and try to let these women in your life.
It's not their fault that they are not virgin like you, I'm sure many would love to be virgin again to just be with you, and it's not fair... well it's still up to you, if you still can't stand the fact that you are meeting women that had exes and stuff, then it will be more difficult to handle yourself and your situation.
Fact is, you are not supposed to judge people by their past...
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Most Helpful Guy
I would recommend you avoid telling women that you are a virgin. Most find it unattractive and look down on you for it.
I get that you don't want a girl to be your first and only, while you are like one of 5- 8 other guys they have fooled around with. That being said, at your age you probably won't be able to find a girl who is equally as inexperienced as you are. However, as an alternative you could have a few casual relationships to gain experience before looking to settle down seriously. That way when you won't feel like you missed out or like you got screwed over.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE