i am 23 and she just turned 24
i work offshore so for two weeks at a time, I'm not home. All I ask of her is to talk in the mornings and and night time.
She tells me that if she stays home she gets bored so she goes out with her close friends to get away and not think about me not being at home and her being lonely.
Here re recently I get irritated because whenever I do try and call her she always has something planned. And whenever I ask her to st least inform me of her plans, she says she doesn't think to let me know st that moment and that the plans are last minute ( I've witnessed it myself when I am home)
she says she is beginning to feel emotionally detached because of our recent daily arguments. And it's mostly about not talking to me while I am home
things have been rough recently. Between finances, bills, and moving into a new apartment we have hardly had any time to ourselves. She says she needs space to recollect and center herself.
Any auggestions? Should I stop "pursuing" for a conversation and not be so demanding even though I feel she isn't willing to compromise with me?