I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now. He absolutely spoils me, we never argue, he's kind and sweet and "perfect"... but... I don't know if he's perfect for ME.
I love him, but much more as a friend than a romantic partner.
His (ex-) best friend loves me much, and I've known him for over a year (although only began developing feelings around the time my boyfriend and I started dating). He is me. He's not perfect, but he's romantic and funny and very nice. I am completely enthralled with him, as is he with me, but I'm not a cheater and he wouldn't condone that.
I don't know how to handle this. I feel like if I break up with my boyfriend, i'll regret it... but if I don't, i'll be at our wedding, wishing I'd married the other guy. Please help.
- Stay with your boyfriend.Vote A
- Break up with your boyfriend and date the other guy.Vote B
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It's not always Greener on the other side of the Fence Here, dear.
However, if you are having Mixed feelings of these dealings, perhaps it Might be Best to take a Break from this One, hun, and see if Dating the other is what is Best from the rest for you.
I can't guarantee that the the More "Perfect" one for you, so it seems, Will be Waiting, but I Feel it is not Fair to him that you have these Feelings for another and he is being Cheated out of Meeting someone who Might be Better Suited for him.
Do Some Serious Soul Searching. Hearts are at Stake with any Decision you Make.
Good Luck. xx0