I'm a pretty 19 year old with a great personality. I'm different from a lot of people my age in many ways. I have never been in a relationship or even kissed anyone. When in a relationship with someone I think there are two possibilities your either going to break up or get married. I would only want to date someone if I like them a lot, not to hookup or anything like that but instead foreseeing something long term and special. I'm the kind of girl that would want to get to know all about someone without so much intimacy. I don't need to kiss someone or have sex with someone in order to get to know them and their personality. I don't know if anyone else thinks this way or I'm just weird! I don't want to be giving pieces of my heart away like lollipops. Is this attractive? Or would guys run the other way when I want to just talk and get to them and spend time with them... Like I would want to spend one on one time with them, go on dates, have a lot of fun.. but nothing besides hugging. I wouldn't want to kiss someone until I'm in an exclusive relationship so that would be probably several months until a first kiss. Would any guy wait that long? I don't know.. but I'm waiting for the right man and I think he will respect me and he will be happy that he did :)
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I think you would be very severely limiting your choices. Waiting for sex is not unusual. But not even a kiss until several months into a relationship? That's not even a relationship. You'd be highly unlikely to ever get that far.
You want to get to know them, get to know their personality, and find out if you are compatible. But to do that you have to give it a chance. You are not giving it a realistic chance. A tiny percentage of guys claiming they are willing to wait that long isn't giving it a realistic chance. You'd be eliminating the vast majority of guys before you even found out if you are compatible or not. Even the most prudish women would not wait that long for a kiss.
If you really want to get to know a guy before going forward, you need to know them as friends or acquaintances first. Then start dating or form a relationship. There would have to be some closeness or bond before you ever started dating.1