I'm a pretty 19 year old with a great personality. I'm different from a lot of people my age in many ways. I have never been in a relationship or even kissed anyone. When in a relationship with someone I think there are two possibilities your either going to break up or get married. I would only want to date someone if I like them a lot, not to hookup or anything like that but instead foreseeing something long term and special. I'm the kind of girl that would want to get to know all about someone without so much intimacy. I don't need to kiss someone or have sex with someone in order to get to know them and their personality. I don't know if anyone else thinks this way or I'm just weird! I don't want to be giving pieces of my heart away like lollipops. Is this attractive? Or would guys run the other way when I want to just talk and get to them and spend time with them... Like I would want to spend one on one time with them, go on dates, have a lot of fun.. but nothing besides hugging. I wouldn't want to kiss someone until I'm in an exclusive relationship so that would be probably several months until a first kiss. Would any guy wait that long? I don't know.. but I'm waiting for the right man and I think he will respect me and he will be happy that he did :)
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The sisterhood has ruined it for you and made it more difficult to meet a decent guy. The vast majority of women do not find decent guys attractive so those types of guys either give up and opt out, or they become bad boys and match what's in most demand (and get more women).
Due to this, most guys are no longer willing to wait, especially the most popular ones so girls react to this pressure by having more sex... so when a girl like you comes around, the amount of nice guys is barely measurable but the level of bad boys or pretend nice guys is rising so you will meet lots of pretenders and very few willing to wait.
Your only option is to remain true to yourself and except what ever consequence this may bring.
Personally I opted out years ago and I notice all of the same crap. Have gotten hit on by married women, women pretending they have no bfs to try it on, seen couples cheat and nice guys getting strung along and friend zoned.
Opting out was the best thing I ever did but I wish you lots of luck.
There was a story a nice guy wrote about having no luck until he became bad as an experiment. After he started getting dates and offers, he lost all hope. I can't find the link unfortunately... or maybe fortunately haha.1