I've never been like this before. I've dated plenty of guys but a relationship never worked out. I got used to it so bouncing to the next guy wasn't really hard for me. Then I met my last fwbs and no one compares to him. From the first day we met we just clicked. There was no awkwardness, it was always fun, I didn't care about being myself around him. I could go on and on. I never felt or thought anything negative when I was with him. I'd already be in a good mood and he'd lift it up even higher.
Of course he wasn't looking for a relationship. He said before he kind of wanted to with me because he hadn't expected to like me so much and he felt the same way I did. Still he thought it was the wrong time and things just fizzled out.
Guys have approached me and I've talked to a few but it's all boring now. No one is exciting anymore. I hate the first meeting awkwardness now that I know it doesn't have to be a thing. If I don't feel comfortable being myself around someone in the beginning I'm over it in a heart beat. If I don't get excited to see them every time I'm not gonna continue with it.
I'm at the point where I don't want to date anyone at all because I feel like I'm not being fair. I don't know what happened but it's really getting me down.
Most Helpful Guy
What happened is you found a great guy and you clicked. Doing friends with benefits is foolish if you know you are into the guy. It doesn't work very well for the reasons you describe. Did the guy say when the right time would be? If not, you have learned a huge lesson. You will change if you allow some time to pass. You are mourning a loss, even though you never had him. It's a loss to you. It takes time to get past that. You will meet other men you like when you are past comparing them to him. That will come with time. I wish you the best in getting over this.2
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Most Helpful Girl
sounds like he has another girl. did you ever have sex with him or refuse his advance towards having sex with him? did he say why he was opposed to a relationship with you?0