It is the second date and we are going to the movies. (Before you say this is a bad idea, we had excellent conversations on the first date so we know we are compatible already.) Anyway, I know that he likes me but I want to see how I feel about him and whether or not I am physically attracted. I thought this would be a good test (sitting close together in a dark room). I'm not looking to kiss him yet but I would like to try holding hands, cuddling, leaning my head on him (the movie theatre seats are connected like a couch). How can I make this easy and not awkward? Two things I'm nervous about:
1) What if it is going so well and I do like him and he tries to kiss me but I'm not ready to kiss yet?
2) What if I realize I'm not attracted to him? How do I make it not awkward?
Please give me tips and advice!!!
If I am NOT attracted to him I just want to watch the movie.
Most Helpful Guy
Just be yourself an follow your heart... and if he wants to kiss and you're not ready just tell him it's too early. But don't forget to tell him as well if it is because you don't really like him or if you just want to wait a little.
Best is not to raise questions but answer them. Being nice and open with each other works best :D1
Most Helpful Girl
I always find if the movie has a tense moment of action or suspense, I'll just reach over and squeeze his hand. If the suspense ends I then can reach for my soda/popcorn or just keep hopkding if I like it.1