- Yes, they areVote A
- No, they're notVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I tried approaching guys I like just to not miss any opportunity that may have turned something great. Whenever I approached, and showed my interest, they treated me like an easy lay even though I didn't get laid with them so quickly or early as "sex is for someone you love and you're in a relationship with, not for one night stands" for me. So i think guys think women who are strong and know what they want and go for it are kind of intimidating, or turn off, or easy lay sluts, and so they dont want relationships with them. But i still cannot refrain myself from approaching guys to show my interest in a friendly cute way, not really slutty way as I was never a slut anyways.7
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Most Helpful Guy
I mean, there's no law that forces you to do so, but if you're a guy and you wanna get some, then yeah, go with the mindset that you have to approach, because you're not often gonna be approached.
Girls rarely will approach you when they have to talk, meaning in the street, coffee shop, lounge... they will be more prone to approaching in places like clubs, when you're dancing and they just get close to you so you can dance together. They don't have to talk, so it avoids them being embarrassed if they're rejected. Also, they probably have some drinks in them that makes them a little bit bolder.
In the end, most women do want to approach guys, because most aren't conceited bitches who think it's not their job to do that. Problem is, they're too scared to approach. You gotta keep in mind that women care way too much what others think about them, so they wanna avoid being in a situation that may embarrass them.4