I mean i really wish i had a boyfriend but it seems like bad girls always have boyfriends and i can't i mean im not ugly and i am nice according to people but i feel like guys dont like good girls?
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Never believe that. My ex was a good girl, I loved her very much. Unfortunately, being cheated on thrice I had trouble opening up to her, and ended up losing her. be yourself and find a good guy, the bad ones will only make you build a wall around your heart.1
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Most guys want a lady on the street and a freak in the sheet, they want a girl who won't create drama, cause problems, and kind to others. Granted, freak in the sheets is really just, fulfilling their physical desires whatever that may be so that's a tad subjective, but you do have to be someone they can take home to mom. Everything else is temporary. A guy will sleep with the easy lay, they will date someone for a reliable source of sex (and yes, a guy friend actually used those words to describe his dilemma of should he date his fuck buddy because she wanted to date or they break up and he wanted sex, so he dated her until he didn't want to compromise anymore and the sex wasn't worth it in his eyes).
Most guys aren't looking for long term yet at 18-24. And the bad girls, well in my experience they usually dress fairly provocatively. They have boyfriends because the guys think they'll get laid. Or they're really hot and well, guys like hot girls.
Oh, don't tell me good girls come in last because that is so not true. Good girl here, even read Miss Manners at one point, yup, a proper good girl. Acceptable looks, not ugly, not hot, I still had my fair share of admirers. The thing is, they aren't the super hot guys, they're not handsome, they're not ugly, not hot, like me. They're nice guys. They're also guys that most people would probably not take a second look at or get to know better. Many of them are also quite shy, it usually takes them a long time to ask me out (one of them took about 3 years). Just like how 'good guys finish last' isn't true, good girls do get guys.0