Im on this dating app where i matched with this guy, and he messaged me, we have been messaging eacother for over a week now. This isn't a guy im super attracted to, he is kinda cute and he is a bit older so that made him quite interesting to me. He comes across as this really nice guy, and i have enjoyed the conversations we have had.
He suggested us actually meeting up, but a part of me inst super excited about going to be honest. Its not necessalry because of him, i just well.. im not sure. So since im not really into meeting him im not sure if i should.. on one side i think it could be interesting to meet up, and if things doesn't go well, i dont need to talk to him anymore. or on the other hand fr all i know, we have a great chemistry.. I think the fact that he isn't really handsome/hot that is holding me back. He is not ugly, by any means. Would you go in this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like you might have certain preferences about an ideal guy, be that appearance- or personality-related, and that isn't a bad thing. If I were in a similar situation with a girl I'd have mixed feelings about her appearance too, and it's just because I know what I'm looking for in a girl. If she doesn't have what makes her stand out in my eyes, I'd likely feel hesitant.0
Most Helpful Girl
Do you like him? Is he compatible with the exception of his looks? If so, I think you should give him a chance, look beyond the surface. Also, worst case scenario, you don't like him, wasted some time on a date but hey you won't waste any more time messaging him right?0