Before choir tonight... this guy was being asked questions. He was talking to a lady... and was sitting in his chair. He told me hi earlier when he passed me to get to his chair... so he knew I was listening. He was talking to the lady about how he is going to play the piano at his friend's wedding this weekend. At one point I had turned around and looked at him trying to listen to him talk. He was mostly looking at the older lady he was talking to... but at one point he was rubbing his right hand on his thigh. (It was a medium pace). I've seen him stroke his thigh like that before. Both other times I've seen him do that he was sitting close to me. Is this a sign that he was uncomfortable about what he was talking about? (His friend's wedding) Or is this a sign he was nervous because I was sitting there and then I turned around and looked at him when he was talking? He has not been able to look me in the eyes at times and looks at me when I'm not looking at him... even when we are sitting in the choir loft at church... I'll see him looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I don't have much experience. Help?
Why was he rubbing his hand on the top of his thigh?
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usually something like that can be a sign of either nervousness or thoughtfulness. as for him not wanting to make eye contact, some people are shy and non-confrontational. especially in a church.
if you're interested in him, and he obviously talked to you, let him know, and be obvious about it. one of the worst thing women do is don't say what they feel or mean. a guy will never read your mind. even if he thinks you're giving signals, he won't know for certain, and that's enough to make a guy clam up.1
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