He liked her before I did, tried to kiss her and tried to finger her before I even met her. She didn't like him so it never happened. I started dating her and it was calm until he got back into her life. He makes comments of a sexual nature which got me upset. I shouldn't have ranted at her, which she got angry for. She also ditched me for him multiple times for him. After two weeks of arguing over him, he told her he liked her and he knows she likes him. she eventually blocks him. After a day his friend contacted her to ask why she blocked him. During our fighting she has been telling him everything and he said he would kiss, which she accidentally let slip out. I got angry and mad the mistake of yelling and being hurtful. Her friends say I am controlling and to break up with me. So does the guy and his friends. She suddenly got angry again and says she wishes she never dated me and I'm controlling and emotionally abusive. I just didn't want her talking to a guy who likes her and doesn't respect our relationship. She doesn't wanna be that "girl who says I have a boyfriend." What do I do? Am I wrong? She says she doesn't care if he makes comments like that. I know I shouldn't have yelled but she's so angry and I'm worried.
Most Helpful Girl
Your girlfriend is being an unreasonable attention whore. She obviously enjoys the attention of the other dude without minding your feelings about that. If I were you, I'd either break up with her or I'd start talking to a girl who I knew she fancies me.0
Most Helpful Guy
you're not wrong dude, this girl is a manipulative bitch and sounds a lot like my ex. She's getting mad at you and so defensive because you're right. You're so much better off finding another girl with less drama and actually respects you and the relationship.
When my ex got a new job this guy started texting her and snap chatting her all the time. She told me about this within the first few days of him doing this and asked me for advice because she thinks he likes her and was worried that she could develop feelings as well so I told her she shouldn't give him much attention, remember SHE came to ME and asked for advice and that's what I did. She accused me of beinrg controlling and jealous like all her other ex's (huge red flag that I missed... EVERY single one of her ex's was controlling according to her, maybe she was the common denominator hhhmmmm). Anyway they still kept in contact and I let my guard down since the dude was in a very serious 3 year relationship himself. My cheated on me, not with that guy but another one. We spoke a couple months after the breakup and she told me that work was hell because there were so many rumours that she and that coworker were hooking up...
Some girls are just way too immature for a serious relationship and your girlfriend is one of them. Sorry man.0