i saw this quote "how a person reacts to your sadness says a lot about how long they're going to be in your life". and i thought of my boyfriend who doesn't show that he cares much. once i posted something implying that i am sad and facing problems. he commented "it will be better" but he NEVER cared to ask me what happened. he just continued with his life. and when im sad, he doesn't really comfort me or ask me if im okay. he just puts sad faces and be like :(. how does your SO react? and what should i do about my boyfriend's case. he says he cares about how i feel. but I don't know.
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I realized that my husband can't be my everything and I have to trust that God cares and will do something if I trust in God. My husband has very little emotional intelligence and he is a person who has no empathy so it's just hard for him to know what to say since his family raised him up to be like that! Plus I think that relying 100% on someone is not ok, you have to have your own backbone too. You know? Just realize that you will be ok yourself, and know that you will be taken cared of by a God who knows you and knows your heart... you'll be fine.0