I was talking to a guy and i guess we have a friends with benefits or more of a f*ck buddy situation cause we dont go out he only calls when he wants sex which is usually once a wk and i dont hear from him till next wk when he wants it again. He doesn't buy me anything or do anything for me. I constantly feel like he is taking from me but won't give anything back. Its crazy cause i like him and would like to get to know him more but we are way pass that stage cause its been 2yrs and i know i can't change what i allowed to happen and im not quite ready to let him go yet. So can someone help me in this situation and im kinda ok with a friends with benefits as long as he does what he needs to to keep me happy and i do the same for him
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Friends with benefits is supposed to go both ways in which after any meet-up you're both suppose to feel satisfied. If he's using you just as a sex doll for him to get off then that's not the way it's supposed to be.
Also, that voice in you head that says you want him and like him, ignore it, it's lying to you. that's just the hormones talking. Even if those were your true feelings, I doubt you'd get the love you're looking for back.
Ultimately if you want sex and you enjoy the sex then there's nothing wrong. But if he's using you for sex, give him the boot.0
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