So I said yes impulsively to the guy I've been dating when he asked me to be his girlfriend and now I don't know whether I actually see him as a boyfriend or just a friend. At first I thought I did like him, but now I think it was just because he liked me and I was just flattered or something. I don't get butterflies or anything when I'm with him and it feels too much like a friendship and I don't know.
I'm so confused.
How do I know if i like him? What do I do if I don't? I know I'll have to break it off with him but then I just don't know how to deal with this.
Most Helpful Guy
If you feel nothing more than feelings of a friendship, then that's all it should be. If you can't picture yourself with him in a relationship or don't get feelings that move past friendship status, you need to tell him before he falls hard for you. Stuff like that happens where you say something without fully thinking it through or having feelings towards the situation. Just be honest with yourself & with him. You don't wanna wait to long; the longer it drags out, the harder it'll be and someone's feelings will be crushed1
Most Helpful Girl
Tbh, I can identify whether I actually like someone because I don't question whether I like him or not. I like to be genuine about liking the person. If I'm doubting whether I like him or not, then I know I don't like him because of who he is. I've been through your situation before.
When I dated this guy who liked me, I only liked him because he liked me. I went through things I wasn't ready for and after I went through all the pain of being near him, I realized I never liked him at all. So advice for now, break it off but do it so that he sees why you think that this is the best idea.1