he needed money for games and he said he needs to pay off his bank. i started resenting him for it for some reason.. because i hope it doesn't become a habit. i changed my mind and said it was his early bday gift, in case i might not get the money back.
i really hate my our relationship being about money, because i need to save my money too
Most Helpful Guy
If this is the first time lending him money I thought you show some faith and believing he will pay you back. Seeing how you don't shows more about the relationship than him not paying it back.0
Most Helpful Girl
If he asks again, tell him you can't keep giving him money for games because they aren't a necessity and you need to save your money for important things.0