So for a little bit of detail, my father is 48, I'm 24 and his girlfriend is also 24 but a few months younger than me. I've met her, she seems lovely and I'm happy my dad has found someone, I just find it weird she's my age. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Do you think I'm wrong for finding it weird and slightly uncomfortable?
Most Helpful Guy
whatever your father chooses to do, that's none of your business. It only becomes your business, the way treats you, like abusing you etc.
You don't have to agree with his choices, but doesn't mean you can't be happy for him. He might be only dating 24 year old girl, but she is an adult, so he is doing nothing wrong. Beside 48 years old is still pretty young, I see a lot of girls dating your father age. To be honest I don't blame them, because men like your father, know how treat to a women.
If she is lovely and a great person, and they both make each other happy, then let them be in a relationship, don't ruin that relationship, if you do, it might cause resentment towards you later down the line.
It would be wise for you not to interfere in his relationships, let him live his life. You just worry about your relationship with him. At the end of the day, he doesn't need your permission to do anything.
Most Helpful Girl
Actually, that makes me angry, because your Dad is putting you in a spot that is uncomfortable. Its also strange for me too just reading it. Where is his head?
yes, its happened to me too and I dont like my parent's choices at all. I think its wrong that everyone gives me just... garbage!
I want to yell at the world, that those people my parents are dating have called me things like brat, f***** and a**. I wish I could wake up from this nightmare... I can't handle the name calling anymore.
Someday, I will get enough money and have my own house and have flowers in every room like jasmine, orchids, and lavander.0