I love him he was my best friend for a long time and then we started going out.. at the start we always had loads to talk about but now I feel like we don't have things to talk about and that it is quiet between us and I don't know what to do about it? I'm really upset that that has happened I hate myself so much for not being able to be compatible with the one boy I love. I don't think I can continue being with a guy that I can't have long conversations with and be able to feel like it's never a struggle to talk but I love this guy so much. I'm rrally caught. Also, I mostly hangout with him in school and I spend full days with him on weekends and my life would really be empty.. he is really my only friend and I suck at making new ones.. I also love his parents and sisters and brothers.. I really want to be compatible more with him I don't know what to do now I'm heartbroken he's an amazing guy :/
Most Helpful Guy
Hold up here. Love doesn't quit on someone. This is the exact type of breakup that would have you asking questions on here as "why you made such a foolish decision?" or "How do I get him back?" or "why is mad at me for breaking up with him?"
SLOOooooowwww down. You are going to need to sit him down TV off Music OFF phones down...
Tell him that you want things back to the way they were. Ask him point blank why don't we communicate. tell him you love him. however these are issues I need from you.
Find away to work this out before making a rash decision that will break your heart even more.
Communication is the key to success. you may find there are things he also desires from you. Silence is a keeper of ill feelings , so be prepared.
I have had feelings like this with other SO's in the past and a simple airing the ways sharing what's on our minds resolved a lot of conflict and or bad breaks.
You may find that he will be more attentive and it could possible be he is fearful of showing himself to you emotionally. if you allow him to be himself he may be freer to open up more.
you would be giving up a lot if you just dump him.
Relationships are hard to maintain without communication. you are both young and growing and learning how to be in a long term relationship.
Do a Pro's and con's list and see where he falls into place for your future.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't end it until you are over 100% sure . You feel indecive just now, so don't make a hasty decision just yet
Communication is the only way to salvage a relationship. So talk to him, tell him how you feel. Explain it like you have here. It sounds reasonable. He may surprise you by being very talkative , and he may just have a lot to say.
Make your decision after you've talked to him. It's possible it still could work out , that's if you want it to :)3