Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for nearly a year now, the whole time she hasn't been out to a party once and i went out before we got together and only now she's really starting to care that im going out
And says she has little trust and if i go to another party she's gonna break up with me , i know it sounds like why dont you just not go to a party and spend time with your girl, well our whole relationship I've never hungout with her i only see her during church thats it.
Im in a tight situation but im open to anything that may help
Most Helpful Girl
I see her point of view because I was like that with my long term boyfriend recently. We got over it though, and I'll explain how.
She's probably hurt that you have time to go to parties and a way there but not time to spend with her. She's worried you're going to drink or smoke and do something she wouldn't like or approve of.
To fix this I suggest inviting her is the first step. Try to include her in things you do. If she declines, it's understandable because she may not be a party person.
If that doesn't work then explain to her how you like to go out and have fun. You can't promise to stick to the ultimatum she set because it's not in your personality, and you need to compromise.
A good compromise is to text her semi frequently during parties and try not to get drunk or intoxicated. That might set her mind at ease. Also attend less parties.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Break up with her.
Go out again.1