Okay so first off I don't break up with women unless there's a damn good reason (example: she's never there or incompatible personality) I'm dating my friend (its how all my relationships start out (best way) I've known her for two years, but we only started dating since Jan. Its long distance and I'm fine with that I'm still in college and want to finish before I settle down and she's got some stuff to. She hasn't been able to talk to me much its been 3 weeks (going through hard times). Before 3 weeks she wasn't on for 2 weeks so she's not always able to be on and its a lonely experience you begin to wonder if she's still into you or if she's with another (its happened before).
In order for a long distance relationship to work there has to be a lot of communication for it to stay alive and well since you can't hold or see each other everyday. I like attention, I'm not obsessed with it, but I want to be able to tell the woman I love, that I love her every day.
there's another woman (also a 2 year friend (also long distance) whom I've been in love with for a very long time but couldnt have cause she chose someone else over me (they didn't work out) I still love her, she recently confessed how she feels about me (and it felt damn good). But I'm already in a relationship and I don't know when my girlfriend will be on next. Will she be on again for an hour in 3 more weeks? A month? She said shed be back online full time 2 weeks ago but hasn't shown yet.
I've told the woman (whom just confessed) that if she finds someone (before she can call dibs on me) to take that person and not wait for me. She reluctantly agreed and I hated treating her this way. How long should I wait? 1 month or 3? Am I a bad person to be thinking about letting someone go cause she's not there? My current girlfriend has had guys use her and I told her I won't (I want to be the right guy I have to be the right guy) and this is why its especially hard for me). What do I do?
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I guess you should wait until your girlfriend is online again. See what she says, how things go with her and then maybe you can make a decision.
However, if she stills absent maybe you should break with her.
I don't think you're a bad person for wanting to leave her. You feel lonely, she isn't giving you attention and the other woman you like confessed her feelings for you.
Now, you feel that you have a chance with her because she also likes you. So, it's normal that you have second thoughts.
Try waiting 2 months and see what happens.