The next week I invited him to a party I was going to, and we ended up at a bar/club. We were both pretty tipsy, and ended up in a heated make out session and he asked me if I wanted to go back to his and I said yes. Soon as I get back to his, we started making out and he started fingering me and eating me out. I asked if he wanted to fuck me and he said yes, but he wasn't hard yet, so I started to blow him but he still wasn't hard, so we gave up and just cuddled naked and went to sleep. He also cuddled me in the morning when we were both sober
He looked really embarrassed and said he was really upset because he wanted to sleep with me but it wasn't working. I said it was fine and probably cos of the alcohol
This was 5 days ago and I haven't heard from him since (nothing at all) ... is this a bad sign? Does he not want to see me again? I thought he would want to try again
also why would he cuddle me and hold my hand and stuff if he just wants something "casual"