Guys, who would you rather make the first moves on a date?

We all know that we can't plan things out perfectly all the time. But in your IDEAL situation, what would happen on a first date (or any date before physical affection)?

How would you want your date to initiate hand-holding and/or kissing?
How would you initiate?
  • I want to be the one to initiate hand-holding and to initiate the first kiss.
    Vote A
  • She can initiate hand-holding but I want to be the one to initiate the first kiss.
    Vote B
  • I want to be the one to initiate hand-holding but I want her to initiate the first kiss.
    Vote C
  • I want her to initiate hand-holding and the first kiss.
    Vote D
  • I literally don't care one bit.
    Vote E
  • Other (please comment)
    Vote F
  • I'm not a guy (Happy International Women's Day!)
    Vote G
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Most Helpful Guy

  • It should be the one who wants it. If I feel like holding her hand, then I will make the move. If she wants to hold my hand, then she should make the first move.
    I hate it when girls don't make the first move on anything, because it literally gives me the impression that she's not into me. If I am the one having to do absolutely everything, there's most likely not gonna be a 2nd date.

    • Good answer. She might just be shy and nervous though. You should give girls like that a chance if you like them.

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    • Like I said, try a second date with those girls. If they seem to be enjoying themselves and agree to a second date then they are interested. Some people need more time to get used to a person before they jump right in.

    • Thanks for the MHO

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What Guys Said 2

  • I'll make the first move w/hand holding but I'd want her to reciprocate

    • You mean if you hold her hand you want her to kiss you?

    • Yes but if she's too shy and she reciprocated in a different way I'd be ok to kiss her.

  • I dont think it should matter that much


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