i'm not afraid to admit it. I'm a solid 5 1/2 on the hot scale. Just an average girl, average (to little curvy)
Recently I went on a date with this dude who is a straight up 10!!! Like Calvin Klein, I think you might have accidentally forgotten this model here. (My best friend was like WTF? You, him? I was like, I know!!! He's too hot) He's successful, charitable, good guy, good hair, amazing smile, 6 pack sent from the gods.
Anyways, so the entire date in my head I'm like "There has GOT to be something wrong with this dude". Nothing. Long story not short he kept telling me how beautiful I was and kissed me goodnight, texted me all the next day and really really wants to hangout again.
I want to, but I'm also terrified that one day when we finally take our clothes off he's gonna be like "ohhhhh... take it back to the manufacturer" cause he has like 10 abs and I look like I have 10 chins (being dramatic).
I know a man's biggest pet peeve is women who aren't confident so I'm trying to pretend I'm Beyoncé but on the inside I feel like Jay-Z. What advice do you have to kind of level the playing field or at least leveling it in my head?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe he's pretty insecure.. Or maybe like o=another user said he's not as hot as you made him out to be.. Or maybe he's not focused on gettin the most "beautiful" girl.. Maybe he thinks you are pretty and sees nothing wrong with you.. Maybe you need to stop puttin him on a pedestal, and puttin yoself down... You good.. Just don't overthink it.. Just see where it goes, and enjoy the ride.. I guess..1
Most Helpful Girl
judging by your PFP, you're pretty. I can see clearly how he'd be into you. And hey, take pride in the fact that you got some arm candy now. He's clearly into you, so I doubt he'd randomly change his mind when it comes to sex.1