Recently I went on a date with this dude who is a straight up 10!!! Like Calvin Klein, I think you might have accidentally forgotten this model here. (My best friend was like WTF? You, him? I was like, I know!!! He's too hot) He's successful, charitable, good guy, good hair, amazing smile, 6 pack sent from the gods.
Anyways, so the entire date in my head I'm like "There has GOT to be something wrong with this dude". Nothing. Long story not short he kept telling me how beautiful I was and kissed me goodnight, texted me all the next day and really really wants to hangout again.
I want to, but I'm also terrified that one day when we finally take our clothes off he's gonna be like "ohhhhh... take it back to the manufacturer" cause he has like 10 abs and I look like I have 10 chins (being dramatic).
I know a man's biggest pet peeve is women who aren't confident so I'm trying to pretend I'm Beyoncé but on the inside I feel like Jay-Z. What advice do you have to kind of level the playing field or at least leveling it in my head?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe he's been objectified his whole past. I can relate to that I got used just because of the way I look and my favorite thing about my current girlfriend is she isn't solely after me for my looks. Even as a guy it's pretty depressing to just be used for sex and not get a text or call back, it's worse when they just tell you no shit they don't want a relationship but a friend with benefits and they told me after sex not before.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
judging by your PFP, you're pretty. I can see clearly how he'd be into you. And hey, take pride in the fact that you got some arm candy now. He's clearly into you, so I doubt he'd randomly change his mind when it comes to sex.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE