This guy @ church has been giving me hints he likes me. We did a duet once & he said we could use microphones on opposite sides of the church & gaze into each other's eyes. He had a funny look on his face when he said it. He's complimented me a lot either on my singing or my clothes. Sometimes when he's talking to me he can't look me in the eyes & starts looking around or he just looks @ the floor. I caught him staring & not looking away. I gave him a Christmas card w/my number in it. He didn't call. He gave the excuse he zoned out & kept apologizing. He looked embarrassed. I told him it didn't bother me. He was looking at the floor & then looked up & said well that's good. He was staring one Sunday night in February.. when the preacher was preaching. I saw out of the corner of my eye. He was behind me coming out of the sanctuary. I turn around & he is staring with his mouth open. During the conversation he asked if I was busy. I said no not really I just crochet. He wanted to know all about my crochet but didn't make a move. I added him on fb Feb12th. He accepted but didn't chat. He sat by me in Sunday School another day.. kept moving around like he couldn't get comfortable... crossing & uncrossing his legs.. straightened his jacket.. brushed his jacket off.. ran a hand through his hair..@ one point he was breathing a little deeper. He went to a wedding this past weekend in another state. I told him this in fb chat:Hi! :D I hope you had fun the other day! We missed you at church! By the way.. you can talk to me in the chat if you want to. I don’t mind.:) Have a good week! He said Thanks! I missed being @ church this morning. I won't be @ church next week either, so have a good couple of weeks. It looked like he was going to type something else. I still saw dots after he posted. He got off before I replied. I told him he doesn't have to be so nervous around me. That I wanted to let him know it's okay & he can talk to me. :) He didn't respond to that message.
Guys, if a girl tells you she knows that you are nervous around her and she doesn't mind.. would that make you more nervous?
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I would make me a little more nervous sometimes; because being with a beautiful girl who knows how to use her feminine personality the right way & speak her mind to me makes me lose my words on what I want to say to her. I've been in this type of situation back in my school years & it sucked that I had no idea to stand tall bravely to talk to the lovely ladies there. I had many ideas about talking to a few but threw in the towel just when in knew that my nervous instincts kicked in right after. I love beautiful/cute girls/women however talking to them has never been a task that I can complete because their personalities get me every time.0
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