Should you ask first? or Just go for it?
I need to find a non awkward way to initiate the first kiss with my crush. She's kinda expecting it (weird story) so I need it to come off as confident and not awkward in anyway. The problem is she might not actually be receptive to the kiss even though she's expecting it (another weird story). I figure if it just smooth and natural it will work out much better. Not sure how to get to that point though.
Last light we were cuddling on her couch and it would have been a perfect time but she was kinda laying in a weird position so I just let it go.
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the most important thing is to be confident. people only see the emotions you show, not what you're feeling, don't act nervous, don't fidget, make eye contact. sometimes it best just to ask her too...kind of. when you're close, ask her:::: eye contact "i was just ..." glance at lips, "wondering if..." glance at lips "i could..." and then slowly lean forward, so you're lips are ****almost**** touching, you go 90%, and then let her come the last 10% and afterwards, unless you start necking for an hour, you finish the question. if she says you didn't wait for her answer, tell her you were afraid she would say no. if you don't seem to be getting close naturally, like stuck sitting in a weird position, lean up and say 'i want to ask you something"...when glancing at the lips, don't make jerky eye movements, let them wander down...not to her cleavage, yet, you perv...and then back up. when you talk, make it a little breathy, but don't hiss at her, and make sure your breath is good.1