So I had been dealt a bad hand in the guy department. I was tired of dealing with deep, long term relationships turned sour and "nice guys" turned douchebags and so I decided to go on a 1 year no dating challenge. Plus, I'm hard core chasing my dream career and I wanted to focus all my energy on that, and myself.
It went great, I loved it, problem is I think it went too great. Now it's officially over and my friends keep saying "Yay! Now you can date again!" But in my head I'm kind of like "uhhh why the hell would I do that again?"
I honestly now feel no need to date... not even the slightest urge. It's like I'm turned off. When I think of dating all that comes to mind is all this emotional turmoil, stress, confusion, and so much time and energy. PLUS I see all these girls ditching their friends the second their boyfriend calls and all that seems just stupid now.
Is it weird that I feel such a lack of desire to date now?
Most Helpful Guy
NO it's NOT normal thank God and congratulation, . lol... By doing exactly what you are doing is the what everyone not in a deeply committed relationship should be doing.
That is actually how the perfect person for me effortlessly crossed my path. lol
I got my shit together and my soulmate. No more of useless unneeded people.1
Most Helpful Girl
I consider that normal and healthy as well.0