It's been a year & I still miss her, But now I feel like I've changed a lot, Time has done wonders. Should I text her back? I miss her a lot. I'm afraid that she has changed & she would send a reply full of anger or ego. I still think she loves me. We didn't talk for a almost a year since the last conversation. It ended on good terms.
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You sound exactly like how my boyfriend used to be. And I mean exactly. We were both in school we used to argue 24/7 and by 24/7 I mean everyday. Over stupid things too. And everytime we fought it ended up fighting over bigger things in the past and then it would always end up with him acting like he didn't give a shit and I would say "lets break up" and he would go "okay".
The longest break we took was a 3 day break because I always ended up giving in and talk to him and we would sort it out.
After 2 years we've gotten a lot better. And think that was because he started working and I started uni so we saw each other at most once a week. Maybe 2 if we were lucky. And we would make the most of those times. Oh and we matured a lot. And I practically forced him to learn to stay and talk and talk it out with me if we fought.
So now after 3 and a half years we're still going happy and healthy and we rarely argue, and we go to the gym everyday together.
MOral of the story: If you still love the girl, then give it a shot. If it's clear she doesn't want to talk or has moved on, then let her. You would have learnt from your mistake. And you guys could remain friends and who knows maybe in the future, you guys would have a chance. But I would say give it a shot if it seems like she still has feelings for you.
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I think it's worth a shot, but try to keep it friendly, easy, play to present and future instead of anything dramatic and lengthy about the past. It's much easier to miss you if you say, "Hey, how's it going?" than writing a love letter or something reminiscing about old times.
I also have some MyTakes for you since I was in exactly the same spot. The wording confused some people but it might make sense to you.
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